The first time Glen Sell held meetings at our church, he
spoke about how our relationship with God is more than just an immediate
"happening"; it is a process of growing and changing. A light turned
on for Miles and he heaved a sigh of relief. It was so freeing that he remembers
thinking, "Thank you!"
Miles was born April 27, 1963, to Morris and Joyce Pruett in
Huntington, West Virginia. He was next to the youngest of seven children. Miles
remembers a lot of turbulence and arguing in his family with his dad being an
alcoholic. His mother died of cancer the day after his 19th birthday. Looking
back, Miles can see God at work and a faith taking root and growing.
When Miles was in the third grade they moved to Bon Air. This
was a fun time for young Miles. They lived in the suburbs and he remembers
roaming the neighborhood all hours of the day and night, riding the streets on
their bikes, and walking the railroad tracks to the store — they felt safe. In
1974 when he was in the fifth grade, they moved to Powhatan. Miles did not
notice another new student; a very shy and quiet girl from Newport News. Miles
loved sports and through his high school and college years, played soccer and
tennis, and coached recreation sports and travel teams.
Sharon, the third and youngest daughter of Howard and Lillian
Hertzler, was born February 4, 1963, in Newport News, Virginia. Sharon loved
their home in the city. They were within walking or bike-riding distance of
school, the store and her friends. She loved playing outside with her sisters
and the neighborhood children. They built forts and had a playhouse with a real
sofa, cabinets, and appliances. She loved animals and dreamed of becoming a vet.
She has fond memories of being "daddy’s little girl" and riding with
him in the dump truck or on the bulldozer. Her special reward for
"helping" him was a chocolate milk shake. Sharon says, "Dad
treated us like boys until we were old enough to date, and then we became his
little girls to protect!" Sharon remembers Mom always being home for the
girls and the great example of a Christian mother.
In 1974 when she was eleven, her secure world was turned
upside down with the move to the "farm" in rural Powhatan County.
Sharon says the only way her dad got them to consent to move was the promise of
animals — lots of animals. They got calves, a horse and a donkey. The calves
were supposed to be a money-making project, but she didn’t see it that way.
She named her calf "Bandit," and he followed her like a puppy. She
finally had to sell Bandit to another farm and was devastated when she learned
that Bandit didn’t work out and had gone to market. Sharon remembers going to
Richmond as being an all-day adventure. They packed bags of books and stuff as
entertainment for the long trip.
Sharon quickly began to make friends at school and church.
She also began to play soccer and was on the same team with a couple of boys who
weren’t very happy about having girls on the team. Much to her dislike, they
called her "pansy." To this day, Miles still denies being involved,
but Sharon remembers differently and she was not impressed!!
Miles and Sharon started dating by accident, or maybe it was
providential! Carl and Linda were dating and had tried unsuccessfully to get the
two together, so they hatched a little scheme. Linda invited Sharon to go see a
movie and Carl invited Miles. Sharon couldn’t believe she had been
"tricked" into a date with Miles, but ended up having a good time.
Soon afterwards they started dating. Miles said, "I was attracted to Sharon
because of her smile."
The first year after graduating from high school, Miles went
to Radford University and Sharon attended J. Sergeant Reynolds Community College
and worked at Elam Animal Hospital. They wrote lots of letters — long letters
every other day! Long distance dating became unbearable for the young couple,
and Sharon decided to go to Radford to be close to Miles. They were good years
with lots of happy memories.
Sharon says she kept asking Miles when they were going to get
married. He would always answer, "When I get a million dollars!" One
day Sharon sent him ten "$100,000" candy bars (now called "100
Grand" bars)! During their junior year at school, they were not happy with
their roommates and decided that five years of dating was long enough. They were
very much in love and decided the time had come to get married.
Miles and Sharon were married August 10, 1985, at May
Memorial Baptist Church. Two days after returning from their honeymoon, they
went back to Radford to their two-room duplex to finish their senior year at
college. They have fond memories of their little apartment. Miles worked at the
Sports Arena and drove a shuttle bus on campus to help pay expenses, and Sharon
honed her skills at "super shopping!"
After graduating from college, they moved to Chesterfield
Village Apartments in Richmond. Sharon, having a nursing degree, went to work in
the medical surgical unit at Richmond Memorial Hospital and Miles put his
business management degree to work as manager at a Radio Shack store. The
following year (1988) they decided they were ready to move back to the country,
and Sharon’s dad helped them build their house in Powhatan. Little did they
know that this would be the last house Howard would build. Two months before the
birth of their firstborn, Howard was killed in a tragic car accident. Sharon
says, "This was very traumatic and difficult. I was so disappointed that
daddy never got to see Steven. He could have taught him so much. It is one piece
of life’s puzzles, and even though I don’t understand, I have learned to
trust God and see Him at work."
Miles and Sharon have been blessed with two children, Steven
and Stephanie. Steven is a soccer fanatic. He accepted the Lord and was baptized
May 22, 2001. Stephanie has many interests, including piano, guitar, softball,
gymnastics and horseback riding. Steven and Stephanie both attend Richmond
Christian School. Spending time with the children is very important to Miles and
Sharon. They enjoy playing sports together and going to the kids’ ballgames.
They also enjoy traveling, seeing more of God’s beautiful creation, especially
at the ocean.
For Miles and Sharon their spiritual pilgrimage has been one
of learning to trust in God. Miles says, "We always went to church but
there were a lot of bad choices made in our family. A youth pastor at our church
in Powhatan took at lot of interest in us Pruett boys and his life and witness
had a profound affect on my spiritual sensitivity. I accepted Christ when I was
13 at May Memorial Baptist Church. Pastor Thomas Mallory preached a very graphic
sermon at Easter time on the crucifixion. The sermon spoke deep to my heart, and
my brother and I both went forward to the altar.
Sharon was 11 when she and her sister, Linda, accepted
Christ. Sharon says, "I was raised in a Christian home and if the church
doors were open, we were there. Olivet Christian Church and Denbeigh Christian
Church had an excellent children's church program, and the leader, Mrs.
Poplawski, had a profound affect on my life. I grew up learning to know God and
feeling His call on my life."
Miles and Sharon are grateful for the spiritual nurture they
receive at PMC. Sharon says, "My parents taught us to serve and share, and
that has been backed by a loving, giving spirit at PMC." Miles, who has
been church treasurer for seven years, says he is continually amazed and
inspired by the financial giving of our church. He says, "I don’t think I
have ever seen a fund set up for a need that the goal has not been met."
This past year, Miles and Sharon were asked to be care group leaders. Miles
says, " I wanted to be more involved, but I couldn’t imagine doing that.
When Pastor Tim called, I asked him if he was sure he had the right
number!" For the Pruetts, this has been a real step in their faith journey
in trusting God to provide.
By Pat Hertzler